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Men’s Solo Quest Program Online

September 24, 2020 @ 4:00 pm - 6:30 pm
$495

This is a safe way for men to bring their gifts of heart, courage, and commitment that are so needed at this time, into the world.

Are you feeling the call to quest? To discover your wild soul? To be initiated as a man? If so, join us in a deep dive into the practice of solo time in nature, led by two initiated men who have conducted this work for many years.

Rites of Passage has been guiding men on wilderness rites of passage for over 30 years. These deep transformational journeys into the heart of nature and the hearts of men have had an enormous impact on the men who found the courage to say “yes” to the inner call.

The program is structured like our 9 day Wilderness Quest program, with one full day of solo time in nature.  Learn more about the stages of a rite of passage.

All group meetings will take place online.
The first 3 group meetings will be dedicated to the Severance or preparation stage.  We’ll cover topics like: personal ceremony, indigenous teachings to support the journey, fasting, keeping a journal, and especially safety in nature.

In the week between meeting 3 and meeting 4, participants will undertake a one-day solo journey in nature, either sunrise to sunset, or a 24-hour solo.

The final 3 meetings will be dedicated to the Incorporation process.  Each participant will have time to tell their story and receive reflections or “mirroring” from the group leaders.  There will be time devoted to questions of the Return, or how to bring these gifts back into the world.

The Solo Quest Online Program Incorporates the Five Core Elements of a Wilderness Quest:

1. Solitude

You will have a full day of solo time, either sunrise to sundown, or 24 hours.

2. Immersion in Nature

An entire day is spent in nature–time for walking, exploring, sitting still, journaling, and enacting ceremony.

3. Fasting

Fasting is an ancient cross-cultural practice, one that opens the mind and heart.  Most men are able to fast during the nature immersion time of the Solo Quest.  This practice can be modified for men who cannot fast.

4. Pan-cultural Teachings

In this program, we will apply practices and teachings drawn from more than 40 years experience guiding rites of passage in nature, including the Four Directions teachings (given to Rites of Passage by a Native American teacher); dialogue with the natural world; journaling; and other eco-psychological practices. We will also teach simple ceremonial practices that can be utilized by Solo Quest participants.

5. Community

Traditional rites of passage always take place in the context of community. This program will have a community of up to twelve men, to share stories, learn from each other, and create a safe and powerful container for the work.

Schedule

There will be three preparatory meetings, each one week apart.  Participants will undertake the nature solo between week 3 and week 4 of the program.
Then there will be three incorporation/follow-up meetings, again each one week apart.
All meetings will be held online from 4:00pm to 6:30pm Pacific Daylight Time (PDT)

Preparation meetings

Meeting 1:  Thursday, September 24
Meeting 2:  Thursday, October 1
Meeting 3:  Thursday, October 8

THE DAYLONG SOLO IN NATURE WILL TAKE PLACE DURING THE WEEK BETWEEN MEETING 3 AND MEETING 4

Incorporation Meetings

Meeting 4:  Thursday, October 15
Meeting 5:  Thursday, October 22
Meeting 6:  Thursday, October 29

Tuition

$495 for the entire program.  A $200 non-refundable deposit is required to register.  Any tuition paid beyond the $200 deposit is refundable up to August 24, 2020.  Some scholarship assistance is available, inquire before registering.

Staff

Mike Bodkin has guided young people and adults on wilderness rites of passage for 40 years.  He’s also a licensed psychotherapist who has worked extensively with youth, families, and adults.  Mike’s passion is to guide people to look into the mirror of nature, in order to confirm their gifts and support their healing.  Mike has been married for 33 years to Renee Sweezey, with whom he sometimes co-guides programs.

 

Tom Anderson is a husband, father of two, wilderness quest guide, and the Managing Director of a regional affordable housing development company. In all he does, he is drawn forward by the desire to make a difference in the world by building better communities. A life-long camper, hiker, and lover of the outdoors, he first quested with Rites of Passage in 2006 and has since completed the training and apprenticeship program. Tom now leads programs as a member of the Rites of Passage staff and uses the wilderness quest model in a variety of formats and settings to uncover purpose and meaning in individuals and groups.

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